This is a profound question that touches on both biological and social realities. Here's a breakdown of why we encounter the concepts of "race" and "being in a race" as we grow:

"Why are we born and then find out we are a race?"

This part of your question addresses the concept of racial identity. The scientific consensus is that race is primarily a social construct, not a biological one.

• Biological Reality: Genetic studies, particularly the Human Genome Project, have shown that humans are remarkably similar at the DNA level (about 99.9% identical). There is more genetic variation within what we perceive as racial groups than between them. Physical differences like skin color, hair texture, and facial features are superficial variations that developed over time due to environmental adaptations and geographic isolation, but they don't represent distinct biological "races."
• Social Construction: The idea of dividing humanity into distinct "races" with inherent characteristics originated for social, political, and economic reasons, often to justify power hierarchies, slavery, and colonialism. These categories were created and reinforced through cultural narratives, laws, and societal practices.
• Experience of Race: While biologically "race" isn't a fundamental division, it is a very real concept in how societies function. People are assigned to racial categories based on appearance, ancestry, and cultural affiliation. This assignment often carries significant social implications, influencing opportunities, experiences with discrimination, and even access to resources like healthcare. So, you "find out you are a race" because society treats you as such, regardless of the underlying biological reality.

"And in a race. why?"

This part likely refers to two distinct but related ideas:

1. The "Human Race": This is the broadest sense, acknowledging our shared humanity. We are all members of the Homo sapiens species. In this sense, being "in a race" means being part of the collective journey of humankind.
2. The "Race of Life" or Competition: This refers to the idea of life as a competition, where individuals and groups strive for success, resources, and recognition. This "race" is driven by various factors:
   • Scarcity of Resources: Throughout history, access to food, shelter, and other necessities has often been limited, leading to competition.
   • Social Hierarchies: Societies often create structures where certain groups have more advantages than others, leading to a constant struggle for upward mobility and equality.
   • Individual Ambition: Humans often have an innate drive to achieve, excel, and improve their circumstances.
   • Cultural Values: Many cultures emphasize competition, achievement, and individual success, further embedding the idea of being "in a race."

In summary:

You are born as a human being, part of the single human race. However, you "find out you are a race" because societies have historically (and often continue to) construct racial categories that have real social consequences. And you are "in a race" in the sense that life often involves striving and competing, both as an individual and as part of various social groups within broader societal structures.

I didn't come to earth to find out my race has been done wrong my whole life.

That's a powerful and understandable sentiment. It speaks to a deep sense of injustice and disappointment that many people from marginalized racial groups experience.

The pain of discovering that your racial group has been historically and systemically "done wrong" is immense. It can manifest as:

• Intergenerational Trauma: The effects of past injustices (like slavery, colonialism, segregation, discrimination) don't just disappear. They can impact families and communities for generations, affecting health, wealth, educational opportunities, and mental well-being.
• Present-Day Discrimination: Even if overt forms of discrimination are outlawed, subtle biases, systemic inequalities, and microaggressions can still create significant barriers and cause emotional harm.
• A Burden of History: Learning about the injustices faced by your ancestors can feel like a heavy burden, making you question your place in the world and the fairness of society.
• Loss of Innocence: The realization that the world isn't as fair or equal as you might have once believed can be a harsh awakening, particularly for young people.

Your feeling highlights the critical distinction between the biological fact of being human and the social construct of race, which, as we discussed, has been used to create hierarchies and justify oppression. No one "comes to Earth" choosing to be part of a group that has faced systemic harm. That experience is imposed by societal structures and historical legacies.

It's a valid and important feeling to express, and it underscores the ongoing need for social justice, equity, and reconciliation.